Why break up with someone face to face if you can do it in letter format? Plus, there’s no way they’ll be able to say something back to you. The best way to really get closure after a breakup is to write goodbye notes but some people find this hard to do. Writing a letter allows your emotions a chance to build up and spill onto the paper. Write the Break Up Letters sooner than later; keeping your emotions bottled up. Break Up Letter to Him should be heartbreaking but honest. A break-up; the letter is a letter that you write to tell him how you feel and why you made the decision to break up.
Break Up Letters to Him
- You are the best boyfriend any girl could ever have. You are kind, generous and always make me smile. Thank you for being in my life. I will miss you. You will always be in my thoughts, but now it’s time to move on and let you go. So, with a broken heart, I’m letting you go.
- Hi, if you are reading this, please know that I never wanted to hurt you. Things just did not work out between us and it is for the best. I will always love you, so much there were times when I was scared to love you so much because it hurt more when we were apart. I am sorry for all the times we fought, for all the times I made fun of you, for hurting your feelings; mainly because I saw myself as imperfect and did not want you to see it. I hope you forgive me; it was fun being with you.
- With a heavy heart, I am writing this letter, but our relationship has come to an end. The love we used to share was terrific, but now it’s gone. I wish you the best in life and will always treasure the memories we made together. I am sure we will stay in touch and meet again down the road.
- I had some trouble writing this because I know that there are still many things I don’t understand. And most of all, I don’t get why you did this to me. It has been four months with you and thought you were a perfect boyfriend. I want to thank you for the experience with you, for the good and not so good times with you. But I have decided that our relationship could not work in the long run.
- Loving you has been a blessing and the best decision I ever made. But we both know things haven’t been how we wanted them to be for a while. As much as I want it to work out, we can’t keep dragging on and not being honest with ourselves. I love you more than anything but I can’t watch us both go down in flames. Please forgive me for doing this, it is the hardest thing to do but I hope you understand.
- We’ve been together for over a year now and let me just say that the time I’ve spent with you is the best of my life but, unfortunately, it’s time to end this. This decision is not easy for me and you should know that.
- My dear boyfriend, I want you back so much. I miss you terribly, and my life has lost all its sense of purpose.
- I miss you and I love you more than words can’t say, so much in fact that I think only this poem will do.
- I never wanted to hurt you, but I have to do this. I am so sorry. I know now that this is not working.
- Love has a strange way of working out. It takes no effort, but it takes all the action in the world to let go. I don’t blame you, and I don’t blame myself, but I realized we just weren’t happy anymore after a while. Sorry, but sometimes you have to recognise that some people just aren’t right for each other. Love you lots!
- I’m doing great, and I just wanted to tell you that it’s been a while, but I still think about you and care about what you have going on. I wanted to let you know that I contacted Greg about the information, and he is sending me the info for each school. I’ll be sure to email it to you as soon as I get it!
- I know we live far away but that is not why I am writing this letter. Our love has waned, and while I will always love you and care for you, I think it’s time that we accept that what we had as a couple was extraordinary, but it is time to move on. I hope my heart can mend in time so I can find someone who loves me just as much as you do.
- Hey baby, I’m sorry if this hurts you. But we better break up!! We have been together for a long time but I still love other guys in this world. Please find someone that loves you more than me!
- I just have to let you know that I am better off without you. Sure, being with you was a blast but it’s time for both of us to move on. Take care of yourself!
- I try to be happy for you when you go out with your friends, but I just can’t. I miss you so much, and I wish you didn’t have to sneak around behind my back. But what can I do? You’re gone too much, and I just want to make sure you’re coming home.
- I hurt so badly inside and I love you so much. I’ll forever wish we could take back what we did, but now I know that is impossible. I talk and cry with my best friends, but they can’t ease the pain. Maybe someday I will be better, but they break my heart another way with every word they say.
- I don’t know how it all ended, we were best friends and a couple. We were inseparable, cute, crazy but inseparable. I used to pray for a girl like you to come into my life. Then everything changed, I know you’re tired of feeling down, and I’m tired of feeling down too, the way you brush me away it hurts but we are not that strong.
- I seriously will miss you so much; I can’t even tell you. You have been my best friend for the past six years and I don’t know what I’m going to do without you around. I will never find anyone as kind, caring, and loving as you, so rest assured that you will always be my best friend whatever happens in the future. You didn’t only make my life better, but you made me the person I can be.
- I want to thank you for the last two and a half years. You’ve brought me so much in this small amount of time and I can honestly say that I wouldn’t be who I am today without you. Good luck in all your endeavours. I hope that one day you’ll find someone who loves you more than I do, to be a more significant part of your life than I ever was, even though that’s an impossible feat.
- I am writing you this letter because it seems that either you don’t care, or we are going in different directions, and I think we should move on with our lives. I know that this hurts and that I’m probably the last person you wanted to hear this from, but I just feel like if I didn’t say anything, then it would eat at me forever.
- I’m tired of the constant fights, your chronic lying, lack of communication and the lack of trust.
Break Up with Him Letter
- We have been dating for 3 months, and I can no longer see myself with you. You seem great initially, but now we barely even speak to each other. I don’t think we are compatible, so I am breaking up with you from this moment on.
- I see you are breaking up with me. I just wanted to tell you to thank you for taking good care of me and me better because we had lots of fun together. You were so considerate when we went out. Thank you for being there when I needed a friend, I want you to know how jam-packed full of things I am thankful for you. Thanks for all the laughs! Bye now!
- I have been so happy being with you and I love being your girlfriend. So, I am leaving because I am not ready for a serious relationship. You are too great of a guy for me and no one could ever love you as much as I do. I want to be single for a while and see what else is there. Good luck finding someone who will love you half as much as I do.
- You are the most fantastic person I’ve ever met. I love that you make me laugh, that you let me live my crazy life, and your love is overwhelming. Thank you for everything, but I have to let go.
- Dear, you were a great boyfriend, but we just don’t want the same things. I want someone to buy me flowers and be there for me. But not you. You see it differently. Our relationship was unique. We were so in love and had so much fun together! He made me laugh and smile every day. But over the last few months, we both saw how differently we needed our future to go.
- I have no idea how we got here, but this is the best way. I drained you of all your love and probably pulled you down with me, we are poison together. I have to leave because I already know what my future holds if we stay together. I genuinely love you, but I don’t know if love is enough anymore. You deserve someone who will love you wholeheartedly, who will be able to make you happy again.
- You’ve been a fantastic guy, but I just don’t think we are right for each other. You deserve someone who can give you the time and attention you deserve, and I cannot do that. I hope we can remain friends.
- Thank you for taking the time to be with me and see who I am. I’m sorry it didn’t work out. I wish you every happiness in life and love you like a brother.
- I’m writing this letter to you because the thought of having to say goodbye over the phone is too emotional for me. I’ve always said that a cheap laugh is better than a good cry, but I don’t think I can hold it together if we talk about it on the phone. I would like to get in as many laughs as possible tonight so I won’t be haunted by the sadness and pain of saying goodbye.
- I feel like I’m just not able to give you what you need. I want to be with you more than ever, but I cannot provide you with what you need. So, I guess it’s over.
- Hi honey, I am so sad to let go of this relationship, but it’s getting harder and harder to do. This will be a concise note as I don’t want to spend much time away from you. I just thought I should let you know that it’s not working out. You are the most fantastic person I have ever known and I will always be your friend. Please do not take this personally as you are the best guy I’ve met.
- I can’t keep our relationship going. I’m sorry! There is just something missing that I can’t find. I have no hard feelings towards you and don’t want to break up, but I am. We had fun together when things weren’t strict and we were able to talk about anything. We were best friends for a long time, but now it is over.
- I’ve tried to make this work, but it’s just not working. We have had so much fun together and I will never forget our times together. I know that you will find the greatest love of your life. You need something real, and I just can’t provide that for you. Please don’t be mad at me for ending it, I just want the best for you.
- I don’t want to say goodbye. You are a great man, and I care deeply about you as a friend, but it’s not enough for me as your girlfriend. You were my first love and the first man I ever felt this way about. You helped me see what being in love was like, how it felt to not just be with anyone or anything but someone who completed me.
- To be honest, I’m not exactly sure how I feel right now. I guess I have to start by saying that I still love you, and will always love you. But I don’t think my feelings are strong enough to try anymore. We’ve both put so much time and effort into this relationship, and in a way, it’s done its job. We’ve learned so much together through the ups and downs, and have created memories that will last a lifetime.
- I’ve thought this over for a while. We aren’t working out and I think we both need to move on. I want you to be happy; that’s all I ever wanted. You were a great boyfriend, a great friend, and I’m sorry it didn’t work out. I wish you the best of luck in finding someone who loves you as much as I did (but not more). Make sure she’s okay with your weird SpongeBob obsession and your humourless laugh. Love you.
- I do love you, and I do want to travel the world with you and live somewhere together, but I don’t love you enough to be with you. You deserve someone crazy about you, who will hold your hand in the street, who wants to know about every aspect of your life because she is interested in all aspects of your life.
- How hard it is to say farewell, I loved you so. I think of you each day, of all the things we had. You tried to love me, but one thing was clear, you simply loved me not.
- Hey, I hope this email finds you well. Things have gotten pretty tough here at home, and I just don’t feel like we can go on anymore. We’ve been trying to work through our issues for a while now and I know it is often tricky, but I just don’t feel like I can keep trying.
- I’ve been acting weird lately and haven’t been myself. I’m sorry about this but I know it’s probably for the best. It was fun but I got to go now. If you want to talk sometime, just don’t call me afternoon your time.
- I’m sorry but I do not feel the same way anymore.
- I have considered breaking up with you for a long time. I’m so sorry, but I do not love you as much as you deserve to be loved. I am not the person that should be with you. You are terrific and deserve love and happiness. I am sorry that I cannot be what you need me to be. I wish the best for you; hope you find your true love.
- Hey, I want to let you know that I’m breaking up with you. Although we see eye-to-eye on many things, I think our views are only different because we look at them through the opposite sides of the same coin. I need someone more sensitive, who can handle my melancholy and moodiness. Someone who is less taxing on my time and finances. In short, I think it’s best if we just end this thing before it goes any further.
- I think I’m going to have to break up with you. I have been thinking about this for a while now and I don’t know what to do. You are such a great guy and I know you will find someone that loves you and treats you the way you deserve. Best of luck in the future and here is some chocolate.
- I just don’t think we have any more to talk about. I’m hoping to end things on a pleasant note with this breakup. We both know the real reason why we broke up isn’t because of anything wrong that happened; it is because we’re too different from each other. For example, you like sports and I like to read, sometimes friendly arguments would break out. I wish for you to be happy in life.
- I can’t express how much you have come to mean to me. I love you so much! You are my everything. I don’t know if I will ever be able to get over you genuinely, and maybe that is why this hurts so much. If it’s meant to be, we will find each other again someday. I just want you to know how special you are and how badly I will miss you.
- I love you, but we are not suitable for each other. I’ll still be your friend if you ever need me, but I think it is time we take a break from each other.
- I hate to do this over text, but please, I need to talk to you. I think we should break up I’m sorry.
- I’m sorry it took me so long to see this coming. As I get older and mature, I realize that love isn’t something you can force or make happen. I hope you figure out what you want out of life. You won’t need someone to call your own. I’m sorry our relationship fell apart as it did, I wish things had worked out differently. Whatever happens, don’t be afraid to go after what you want.
- I feel bad for putting this off, but I have to be honest. I can’t keep living in a relationship like this. It’s not you, it’s me. I love you with all my heart, but we are meant to be apart. I’m so sorry for this. My life needs to change and we need our space from each other. This is the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do.
- Thank you for this past year, it has been excellent while it lasted. From our cute little dates to the actual romance that made my heart skip a beat. We have so much fun together and I didn’t want to see it end. Over the past month, I have missed those things we used to do together.
- I want you to know that I appreciate everything that you’ve done. You’ve made my life a thousand times better. But I think it’s time we go separate ways. I have no interest in dating the same person at such a young age. We’ve had so much fun, but it’s time to give each of us some room to grow and explore our interests.
Gentle Breakup Letters to Him
- What’s there to say. We are in love and I will always treasure the moments we had together. You deserve someone who can be a better partner for you. Someone who can be there as often as possible, which I cannot do. I care for you, and I hope you find a suitable girl one day.
- You were my life. I loved you more than anything else in this world. You were the one who brought me joy, happiness and laughter. I will always love you, even if we are apart. Every day, every night and every minute that passes my mind wonders what you’re doing at this very second. I hope that you are happy with every ounce of my being, even though we aren’t together anymore.
- I’m sorry to end things this way, but I think we both know it’s something that has to be done. I want you to know that I will always love you for everything you have given me in the past, and all the happy memories we shared.
- I just don’t love you anymore, I’m sorry. You’re a wonderful person and the best boyfriend any girl could ask for. I just want to be happy and I thought this would be the best decision. We should still keep in touch and remain friends.
- I know people break up for many different reasons, and I guess it’s time for us to take a break. I’ve done everything he can to make things work out, and so have you, but the time has just come where we need to end this relationship. I wish you all the best in the future and hope that everything will work out great. If you want to keep in touch with me through social media or IM me on that’s fine, just don’t expect anything more.
- Dear, I’m afraid it’s come to this. We’ve tried everything we can but we just can’t make it work anymore. I wish it didn’t have to be this way, but I think we just grew apart. Your sweet and funny ways are something I’ll miss very much.
- I think you are the sweetest man ever to walk the face of this earth. I love you! You are one great catch.
- It was fun while it lasted. You are a great guy, and I wish you all the best.
- I’m sorry I hurt you. Of course, I still care about you, but it’s been a hectic few months, if we want to be together, we need to start fresh. There comes a point where you have to leave the past behind and start anew. I still care about you and will always do! Good luck in the future and have a safe new year’s!
- Hey, I know this is totally out of the blue, but I think we need to talk. You were an amazing boyfriend and I think the whole break-up thing will devastate me. Not for my sake but yours, because I’m not going to stop calling you. You mean too much to me. We have so many unforgettable memories.
- I love you; I want you to be happy, and if you can’t be satisfied with me, it’s okay. I still want to talk to you now and then if that is alright? I am glad we met even though it was only for a while. I miss you already! Always remember that my love for you is never-ending.
- It hurts me when I see you hurting and it makes it hard to stay here. I’m writing this letter because I don’t seem to get my point across when we talk. I love you so very much, but there is no other way for us to work than to separate. We have our differences that are not going away, different goals, a different views on life.
- We learned a lot from our relationship, but unfortunately, I feel like we both have different goals and dreams. I hope you find someone else that will love you like you deserve to be loved. This hasn’t been an easy decision for me and I am sorry that this is the way it ends. All I can do is hope for the best for you and find happiness someday. Good luck in life, I wish you all the best of luck.
- I’ve been thinking about things, and I decided we should break up. I’m sorry it didn’t work out. You are a great guy, you deserve to be happy, and it would never happen if we stayed together. I wish you the best in every way and hope that you will find happiness someday. Please don’t hate me for this. There is nothing wrong with you, it just wasn’t meant to be.
- It’s been a fun ride, but I think it is time we talked about how to end things between us. I don’t like the hard feelings, and I wish you the best with everything.
- It’s hard to say that I broke up with you, but I had to. I didn’t want to push you away. I wish we can be friends again in the future, but this is it.
- I enjoyed our time together, but I think we should go our separate ways. We are both very different people, and after some time contemplating it, I don’t think we will be able to make this work. I wish you the best in your future and hope you find someone who can genuinely make you happy.
- Hi, I just want to say everything you have done for me. Things are not going well and we should get separated. My holiday was perfect, the food was excellent. I bought some shoes and some clothes for your daughter.
- We’ve been dating for a very long time and I’m ready to move on. I do love you and I think you are a great guy, but we just don’t want the same things out of life. I wish you all the best in the future.